Taking a step back can be beneficial when it serves to protect your well-being, organize your emotions, or end a relationship. It’s very different to do it with the sole purpose of controlling someone’s reaction.
If he comes looking for you again, don’t just listen to his words.
The fact that a person reappears does not necessarily mean that the problem is solved; the important thing is to observe if there is a sustained change in their behavior.
Ask yourself: Do they maintain consistent communication? Do they initiate conversations? Do they keep their promises? Do they respect your boundaries? Is there reciprocity, or do they disappear again once they have your attention? In relationships, consistency is often more important than a convincing explanation.
